Which means Merry Christmas in German. Back when I was a kid living on my parents' farm Christmas was quite different than it is here in the US. First we celebrated Christmas with the presents and lighting up the tree on Christmas eve and probably this year we will do this with our kids as well because I don't like the concept of my kids running down on Christmas morning ripping of all the presents and an hour later complaining about not having got enough presents. We will sit down for a nice dinner and afterwards I will put the presents under the tree and we sit around it enjoying the tree and giving the kids the presents.
Actually back then as well as up to now where my sister is keeping up with the tradition the tree was lit with real candles and because the tree was fresh and just brought into the house a few hours before there was never an accident as far as I can remember. But of course you can only light them up when you keep an eye on them until they are burned down and when I am back home I enjoy to watch the candles go out one by one and the room gets slowly darker.
As our family grows with the fourth on the way Christmas becomes more and more a family event where we try to celebrate our family and the love we share for each other. Even though I hate the commerce surrounding Christmas in the US even more than at home I like the aspect of the family event because the excitement, anticipation and the glowing in the kids eyes seem to be gone and is a thing of the past. I don't know if that is just because I am a parent now and my parents thought the same thing or if it is because Christmas is used and misused for commerce and to make more and more money.
That said we are keeping the amount spent for presents in tight limits and are not going to max out any credit cards or anything else like that. We want to enjoy Christmas and not worrying about the upcoming credit card payments. We also like to buy toys made out of wood rather than plastic and this year showed that this might was a wise decision with all the poisoned toys and their recalls.
Happy Holiday, a Merry Christmas and Thank You for Reading my Blog
Andy Schaefer
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